THE Book Syndrome

Confession time, my fellow authors. You, too, must have experienced what I call “THE Book” Syndrome. Yes? Please tell me so! It happens when someone else’s story is published at the same time as your book, but THE Book is far more flashy, in a golden orbish kind of way. It gets all the attention and you’re curious why, so you check it out. In your heightened state of jealousy, you give it a whirl. And after you read it cover to cover, you’re still puzzled. Say what? Yet THE Book follows you everywhere. You pick up a magazine at the gym or at your hairdresser’s, and there it is. You go to your library, and it’s on prominent display. Kids are reading THE Book in the middle of the park (Okay, slight exaggeration). But the final straw is when you do a signing yourself. It’s your big day. Readers are excited about your book. And when you’re finished, the event planner hands you just one book as a “Thank you!” for your participation. And guess which book it is? Yup, It’s THE Book! And you take it home and reread it and think, “Okay, maybe it’s worthy of a bit of that glory and glitter. Maybe just a little.”

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Off and Running

Ahh, the lazy days of summer are fading. Sigh. Still, that means Double Happiness is definitely on the scene. With its book birthday on August 8th, I decided to wait until folks returned from the beach for some book signings. If you care to mark your calendars, here are some upcoming events:

September 11th, 7 pm, at The Writer’s Loft, for a Book Bash. Lots of wonderful authors, including the New York Times Bestseller, Lynda Mullaly Hunt. Click Here for Details:

September 26th, 11 am, at The Blue Bunny, Double Happiness has a launch party, including a reading, a craft and, yes, snacks and dragons. Don’t they always go hand in hand. Click Here for Details:

October 24th, 11 am, at Wellesley Books. Join me and some fabulous picture book authors (Josh Funk, Anna Staniszewski, Jane Sutcliffe and Ammi-Joan Paquette) for readings and crafts. Click Here for Details:

November 5th, 10:30, at An Unlikely Story. Come listen to the story of Double Happiness and then make your own happiness box. 

Why Double Happiness?

SanFranDHAt some point in your life you may have come across the Chinese characters that mean “double happiness.” To make this symbol, the character for “happy” is basically repeated, so you have “happy happy” next to one another, creating an extra joyful effect. It might look traditional like this. TraditionalDHCharacterOr more modern or simplified like this. ModernDoubleHappyCharacter

And while this explanation appears quite simple, there’s a heap of tradition behind the concept of “double happiness.”

Traditionally, “double happiness” is found at Chinese weddings on the invitations, hanging on the walls, imprinted on the napkins. After all weddings are happy occasions. In the past, calligraphers would paint the characters, each one made artistically in red or black ink. Now, to save time, they are printed or stamped.

But how, you might ask, does all of this relate to a children’s book with the same name? Believe it or not, my idea for Double Happiness began as a “rainy day” story. I imagined the two main characters, a brother and sister, being typical kids who are bored out of their minds on a rainy day. Their father is trying to fix a leak in their ceiling, so he instructs Gracie and Jake to find two boxes and fill them with treasures they discover around their home. This is his desperate attempt to keep them busy. Being Asian-American father, he calls them “double happiness” boxes.

Turns out, that idea wasn’t too appealing to editors. The story “needed more movement.” So I thought, why not a real move? Gracie and Jake could be moving from the west coast to the east coast. Why not? To deal with this hugely traumatic event, Gracie and Jake’s wise grandmother (Nai Nai) hand them each a box with the instructions to collect four treasures each along the way. Jake imagines he is like a dragon, searching for the best treasure. And in many ways, Gracie is like the phoenix, who handles this change in her life with grace. Ahh. See, it was all coming together now.

Wait, you say! Where did this phoenix and dragon come from? Wasn’t it hard enough to learn about “double happiness?”  Well, like the yin and yang of life, (when opposites complement one another), the phoenix and the dragon blend together nicely in Chinese tradition. The dragon represents power and strength. He was the symbol used by the emperors of old. The phoenix represents grace and wisdom. She was used by the empresses of old. Together they create a whole, and so they often appear next to the “double happiness” character at weddings.

Perhaps Kirkus Review said it best:  “Double happiness, traditionally a wish for newlyweds in Chinese culture, expands to key moments here: for sister and brother, for two memory boxes, and step by step, for a former home to a new one.” Well now, I couldn’t have said it better myself. Sometimes we have to put a bit of effort into finding happiness, just as Gracie and Jake do, but it’s worth the journey. Sometimes we end up being doubly happy along the way.

First Line Favorites


“Every morning Ellie West listened to her son get out of bed.” This is how The Train of Small Mercies by David Rowell begins. And this is how my new segment about First Line Favorites begins as well. After all, what’s not to love about first lines?

While sounding casual, Rowell deftly pulls the reader into a time in American history when everyday lives were affected by an extraordinary event–Senator Robert Kennedy’s funeral train journeying from New York to Washington, DC. His first line hooks the reader by raising a question. Why? Why is Ellie listening to her son getting out of bed every morning?

The sentence that follows intensifies that question:  “With her husband, Joe, not yet awake, she tuned in so intently to the sounds two rooms down that she could feel some part of her leaving their bed and drifting down the hall.” Now the reader wants to know how old Ellie’s son is, and why she is so attuned to her son’s morning risings? 

As it turns out, Ellie’s son, Jamie, is a Vietnam veteran who’s returned home after losing his leg in battle. And Jamie is just one of the myriad of characters whose day will be forever changed by the passing of Kennedy’s train through their lives. One thing’s for sure, Rowell had this reader hooked from the start.

A Not-to-Miss Workshop

Even if you visit schools as an author/ illustrator already, even if you have a few tricks up your sleeve, I would highly recommend the “Author School Visits” workshop with Michelle Cusolito and Marty Kelley. They discussed contracts and pricing, marketing and presentations (not to mention a burp and a boogie tossed in by Marty here and there). It was fabulous! Don’t miss it, if and when they offer this workshop again. 

The Blue Bunny, Celebrating Independent Bookstore Day

Thinking back on this fun day, May 2nd, at the Blue Bunny Bookstore in Dedham. 

National Independent Bookstore Day
The nine regional independent bookseller associations across the country are working together to collaboratively support a national Independent Bookstore Day on May 2, 2015.  With assistance from their regional associations, bookstores from coast to coast will be welcoming customers in for entertainment, goodies, and specially created literary items.  The Blue Bunny will be participating with the following special programs:

  • 11-noon:  Author Nancy Tupper Ling will be visiting to “toast” Independent Bookstore Day with her book TOASTS.
  • 11-2 pm: Blue Bunny proprietors and authors Peter H. Reynolds and Paul A. Reynolds will be operating a video-booth for IBD customers to give a one-minute pitch for their favorite books.
  • 2-3 pm: Local folksinger Tom Smith will be on-hand for free stories and songs to celebrate the day.
  • All day: Limited edition merchandise, special for Independent Bookstore Day, including a new Peter Reynolds print, will be available.
  • All day: Launch of a Blue Bunny scavenger hunt game that will run through the month of May.
  • All day: Refreshments and special prizes.

Starting Your Own Book Club

At first it might seem intimidating—the idea of starting a book club. After all, there’s a lot to think about, and so many books available to read. Where does one begin?

As you begin to narrow down your options, you may discover this is the perfect time to organize a club of your own. With four book clubs under my belt, I believe I’m starting to get the hang of it now. That said, each group is as different as the people and the books that come to the table.

Keeping these seven questions in mind when forming a book club of your own might prove to be beneficial:

1.      Why start a book club?
It’s essential to answer this question before you work out all the other details.  Initially, there is quite a bit of work that goes into organizing your group. Take a moment to ask yourself how important this venture is to you and why. What do you hope to gain from this endeavor?  Of course sharing a love of books is the main reason why most people start a book club. Likewise it’s a way to grow a community, bringing people closer around a theme or book. This is the reason I started two book clubs at different housing facilities in town—with the hope that a community would come together around a book discussion. So far, so good.

2.      Who to invite?
This relates back to the first question. If you know the purpose of your book club, you’ll know the people to invite. Perhaps it’s a “come one, come all” group. My Senior Center group is this type of club; it is open to the community. As long as the participant picks up the book from the library ahead of time, she can drop in and join the conversation. On the other hand a small group might be your preference. After the birth of my first daughter, I craved adult conversation, so I reached out to some mothers in my church. We ended up with a group of 8-10 to start. If you plan to keep your group intimate however, you might decide to close off membership at some point.

3.      Whether to name your group?
This might seem like a silly idea, but some groups like to have a distinct identity. According to, people use a lot of creativity when naming their book groups. Better Than Therapy Book Club and It’s Not Just About the Food Book Club are a few sample titles. Then there’s Marmaladies, Litwits, Book Broads and John (poor John), and the one I’d jump at . . .Wine, Chocolate & Books. How’s that for the perfect combination?
4.      When to meet?
This depends upon a few factors. How strong are your readers? Can they breeze through a 300 page book in no time? Are they retired, so they have mornings free every other week? The key is to survey the group to see what works best. Ultimately it comes down to what works for the leader and the majority of the members. It’s possible that you may lose a reader or two along the way because the meeting time is no longer feasible for her. In this case you can decide whether to have a “once a member, always a member” policy, in the event that someone wants to return in the future (i.e. when her child actually sleeps through the night).
5.      Where to meet?
Often times you can use a library room for free, if you sign up ahead of time. There’s also your local church, synagogue, café or bookstore, if you prefer to keep the meeting in a public place. This is best for an open group. For closed groups, where all of the members are friendly with one another, there is nothing like a home meeting. Your choice may depend upon whether you want to serve refreshments.
6.      Who will run the meetings?
In many ways it helps the meetings to run smoothly when one person is in charge of facilitating the discussion questions. If you started the book club, you should feel free to take on the role of a leader. This means that you can step in when there are gaps in the conversation, but if the conversation is flowing naturally, don’t interrupt. The trickiest part of being a leader is the handling of difficult personalities. Also, there may be one or two people who dominate the conversation. The art of leading book club is making sure everyone who wants to gets a chance to share.
7.      How to choose your book titles?
So many books, so little time. Anyone who is an avid reader faces this dilemma. Which books to choose? After running several book clubs, I have come to the conclusion that some books are best when read alone, while others must be shared. A good mystery may be a great read, but it might not lead to a valuable discussion once you know “Who Done It.” Typically I search for books that are well-written, but they may have been overlooked in the shuffle. For several of my book clubs, I’m unable to use the hottest sellers because twenty copies won’t be available through interlibrary loan. To generate a book discussion, I’d recommend the following resources: the author’s website, the publisher’s website, Books and Authors and NoveList (databases through,,,, and
Keep in mind the best book club involves preparation, participation and a good sense of humor. Or course chocolate helps, too! 
Here’s a few fun book titles to go along with your book club:
The book club cookbook : recipes and food from your book club’s favorite books and authors / Judy Gelman and Vicki Levy Krupp
Off the beaten page : the best trips for lit lovers, book clubs, and girls on getaways / Terri Peterson Smith

Out of Touch with Reality

Recently I was looking a a list of reality television shows. As I clicked on the links and read the show’s descriptions, something occurred to me. If this is what reality looks like, I  really don’t fit in.

Here’s a wee sampling of some of the current shows. You can see how far removed I am from their reality:

16 and Pregnant (No boys allowed in the ‘hood!)
The Amazing Race (I love to travel, but I have a complete meltdown when I’m lost)
Amish in the City (I’m still building my buggy)
Ax Men (Once you’ve felled one tree, it gets old)
The Bachelor (Taken)
Deadliest Catch (I’m the person eating the deadliest catch in the restaurant afterward)
Fraternity Life (No thanks, I like clean dishes and socks)
Love Island (Have to be single)
Miami Ink (No tattoos. I specialize in scars.)
The Real Housewives of New Jersey (I live in Wisteria Ways, but…no accent and no implants)
Sister Wives (Too much competition)
Survivor (There are better ways to win a million dollars. Who wants to come home with Typhoid Fever)
Who Wants to Marry My Dad (Mom’s still with him after 50 years. Sorry!)
I did find a few possibilities, though. You may see me on television yet:
American Restoration (Now we’re talking. I think I’ll take some of my antiques to Rick’s Restorations)
Dance Moms (There’s potential here, but I’d have to eat more Wheaties for breakfast)
Kitchen Nightmares (YES! I qualify)
Making the Band (Maybe, if I pull my flute out of its case)

Hey, where’d everyone go? I was only cleaning off my flute. Can’t you recognize Yankee Doodle Dandy. What? Did I hear that right? Donald Trump just mouthed the words…”You’re Fired?” Thought so. 

My First Blog Hop

I’d like to thank Kristin Wolden Nitz for asking me to participate in this blog hop. Kristin is a talented writer and she also my agency mate, as we are both represented by the Erin Murphy Literary Agency. Kristin’s books range from  her YA novel, SUSPECT, which belongs to the cozy mystery genre, and her contemporary fantasy, SAVING THE GRIFFIN , which has been called a Narnia in Reverse by one reviewer. You can read about her writing process here.  I’m tagging  Josh Funk and George Kulz, two friends and fabulous writers.

–What are you currently working on?
I always have a picture book or two, or three, in the wings. One of my craziest ideas came to me as I passed by a funeral home on the way to work. Yes, I write picture books. No, I don’t usually write about the dead. Still I started to think about life in a funeral home for this little guy named Mort (of course). To Mort, life in the funeral home is completely ordinary. He can’t understand why his friends refuse to have playdates at his house. It not until a new boy moves into town that Mort is able to show someone how absolutely “normal” his life can be. Well, almost. 

–How does my work differ from others of its genre?
There are lots of Halloween stories and ghost stories for 4-8 year olds, but I don’t know any that touch on life in a funeral home, and in such a light-hearted way.

–Why do I write what I write?
Well, the above-mentioned story is not typical of my work.  Usually I write stories that are multicultural in nature. Having come to the world of children’s writing as poet first, I apply that lyrical style to my picture books as well. That said, I had to learn to rely less on the beauty of the word, and to allow room for the illustrations. Having biracial children of my own, I desire to create characters and stories that they can relate to.  And, I always tell my husband, I married him for his family stories. There are lots of them! 

–How does my individual writing process work?
As Mary Oliver says, “To pay attention, this is our endless and proper work.” It is when I am observing the details of life, especially as a mother and librarian, that I discover stories all around me waiting to be told. Of course, as with many of us, it’s finding the time to write those stories down. That’s the tricky part, so I use my poet’s eye and I take lots of notes on my ideas. This way when I have a tiny window of time, I don’t have to think too hard about what I want to work on. I’m a nomadic writer…taking notes on the go, and writing wherever I can find a spot—dentist’s office, school parking lot, late nights after everyone’s in bed. Then I rely heavily on the fabulous suggestions of all my critique group members. After that it’s back to revise and revise again, before sending a new story off to my agent, who has me revise again. And so it goes.
George Anthony Kulz writes stories that keep you on the edge of your seat. George does love horror, but when writing for children, he tones it down a bit. His first story was called Gullible Gertrude’s Garden and it was published in a magazine called Wee Ones.He’s also been published in many other magazines/e-zines, including Kids’Magination, knowwonder!, and Spider. His other genre is middle grade for boys, but you’ll hear more about that when George post on July 31st.

Josh “Papa” Funk is a talented children’s writer and poet. We met at The Writer’s Loft in Sherborn, MA. I’m especially looking forward to his upcoming picture books. I can’t help but be intrigued by Lady Pancake and Sir French Toast, to be published by Sterling, Fall 2015. Likewise, who wouldn’t want to read Dear Dragon: A Pen Pal Tale by Viking/Penguin, Winter 2016. Josh will be posting his blog around July 21st.